You like to have your options

This morning you wanted to open up your jar of treats and I told to wait until after we eat breakfast. I gave you two options:

1. Put the jar on the table (where I can see it)

or

2. I take the jar away

Instead you wanted to put it in your "tangled" bag. So I met you halfway and asked you to put the bag near where I can see it. I could have insisted on having the jar on the table but could have resulted in a lose-lose situation. I don't get your cooperation and the jar is taken away.